Do you know what your values are?

I mean really know what your values are?

People often throw around expressions like “It goes against my values” or “Doesn’t he/she have any values?”.  We even say “My values are important to me” or “I value xyz,” but I’m discovering that many people – myself included – are very out of touch with their actual core values – the values that govern how we act, feel, and live day to day (or at least, they should.).

I’ve also come to realize that values are integral to losing weight, maintaining weight loss, and to having a healthy relationship with food and our bodies. If you’re sitting there scratching your head trying to think of your values, STOP! Go here. Have a look and try and weed out the 5 words that resonate with you most. To help you hash this out, try and think about a day that you felt on top of the world – happy, satisfied, and fulfilled. What words would you use to describe that day? If it helps you, try and look t the list through a ‘health’  lens. If you’re stuck, email me and I’ll help you flesh out a list (I never thought I would use the words hash and flesh so close together, but I’m so happy I’ve had the chance).

Once you have your values in place, try and identify how they relate to your weight loss journey, or your thoughts/behaviours about food. For example, think about the last time you overate to the point of feeling sick (if this happens to you) and the guilt you felt. Where does that guilt come from? It might be because you feel crappy physically, or because you had a goal and overeating took you off course – but it might also be because treating your body that way or engaging in an unhealthy relationship with food violates one of your values, and you don’t even realize. When we set goals, we often see them as floating objectives that we’re working towards. If we act in a way that doesn’t support our goals, we feel guilty and like we’ve failed, but can also rationalize “I’ll start again tomorrow”. Your values are a part of who you are and what makes you human, and acting against those values can make you feel like something just isn’t right – a sucky feeling, of course, but also a great motivator. When we do something that doesn’t support our values, we feel like we’ve betrayed ourselves; in contrast, when we lose sight of a goal, we feel disappointed and maybe a bit defeated.

#character #values

So lets say that’s true, and that you discovered you’ve acted in a way that is out of alignment with your core values for your life and your body. Super. So now what? I suggest sitting down and mapping out positive and negative some of your food/body/exercise/weight less (etc.) thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Which of these thoughts, feelings and behaviours match with which values, and which are in direct contrast with your values?

If it meant developing a set of habits that would better enable you to lose weight, maintain weight loss, or just feel better about yourself and your relationship with your body,  what are some small steps you could take toward having more items in your “pro-value” list and less in your “anti-value” list?

More on this here :)

Just sitting here chucking at the title of this post…which is meant to be read to this tune, in case you missed the reference.

This will probably end up being a largely ramble of a post, and it definitely won’t be fact-filled or full of hyperlinks. Nope, I’m going to go ahead and forecast that this post will be predominantly anecdotal. So read on, if you dare…or care.

So I mentioned previously (ok I renounce my declaration that there would not be hyperlinks) that I’d been consciously eating more in an effort to gain some muscle and gently remind my metabolism of how much active people should be eating to fuel their bodies. I thought that maybe I would give a little more detail on this, since I’ve received a few emails since publishing that post that lead me to believe that there are a lot of you out there who are undereaating, overtraining, or dealing with a lot of disordered thinking around food that you think is normal because so many women in your lives are also obsessing about every bite they put in their mouths.

Because I’ve lost 100lbs, I have loose skin on most of my body. Sometimes I forget about it, but mostly I don’t; I think about it every time I jump, run, wear shorts, wave, sit, or bend over. I’d love to say that I embrace my excess skin as some sort of badge of pride for my weight loss, but I don’t. I resent my extra skin for overshadowing every muscle bump I work so hard for, and  fully intend to have it removed someday. But until that day comes ($$$!) I am faced with two options: do nothing, OR, build as much lean muscle as I can on my body so that I can look my absolute best with the body I have….loose skin and all.

So I decided, after seeing my marathon photos and crying over how I looked, that I was going to stop putting my body through hours of steady state cardio and start building muscle and training strategically. Oh, and I was going to eat more, too. Take that, body! When I started eating in balance with my total daily energy expenditure (TDEE), I expected that I would gain some muscle, as well as some fat, and that I would feel pretty full in the beginning.

What I wasn’t really expecting is that I would no longer be obsessed with food. I wouldn’t feel physical anxiety around sweets, and I wouldn’t make three trips a day by any candy bowl I could find – even if I didn’t really like the candy – and take as many pieces as I could each time. Oh, and I wouldn’t eat myself sick on weekends anymore. This transformation didn’t happen overnight by any means. Actually, I started eating my TDEE on November 1, 2013 and I didn’t notice that my food preoccupations had lifted until February, 2014…just before I began reducing my calories to drop some of the weight I gained before summer.

In early March, I started reducing my caloric intake by a very small amount, still eating around 2000 calories/day. I began to have days where I would land around 1500 calories/day (gross count) and just run with it, thinking “excellent, now I’ll have an even bigger caloric deficit and lose weight faster.” Recently, after eating a ridiculous amount of candy welllll past the point of fullness,  I started reflecting on some recent…tension…in my relationship with food. I realized that after even a small amount of time in a moderate caloric deficit, I was back to circling around candy dishes, making up bizarre protein powder concoctions to replace real treats, and picking up and putting back things at the grocery store because I’m not sure I can trust myself around them.

Obviously there are tons of people out there dieting successfully, so I’m not saying caloric restriction is a bad thing if you’re trying to lose weight. What I’m learning (and I’m always learning about this stuff) is that all of those disordered food behaviours that I thought were indicators of my poor willpower or giant sweet tooth, were really just my body’s way of telling me that I was not properly feeding myself for the level of activity that I was putting it through. I suspect that, having dieted extensively in the past, those 4 months of eating at my TDEE were a real “a-ha” for my body. I ate enough and made sure that I was getting enough protein, fat, and carbs, and the clouds parted. Here comes the sun!

So what do I do now?

Well, I plan to stop borrowing from Peter (skimping on weekday calories) to pay Paul (overeating on the weekend). My plan is to get back to basics – eating enough per day (1750-2000 calories and never netting below my BMR of ~1460 calories) and balancing my macros, even on weekends. I’m going to stop asking “ok, if I want ice cream, how can I make it with PROTEIN!!” and start letting myself have servings of what I want during the week, as long as I’ve met my other macronutrient goals for the day. I’m not sure that this will work – in fact, it could just be that I need to tell myself to buck up and buckle down if I want to shed a few pounds before summer. What it does highlight though, is that for those of us who have struggled with our bodies and weight, a curious mind and diligent observation is critical to our weight loss success, to improving our relationships with food, and to understanding our bodies. Knowing what makes your body tick (and what makes you mind go a little crazy) is the key to an empowered approach to weight loss.

So, that’s my little confession and my $.02 on all of this nutty stuff.

As always, please email me at if you have any questions, or just need an ear. I certainly appreciate you all lending me yours!


My return to blogging has come at a great time, because it’s almost the end of March – which means I get to share all the things I’ve loved over this past month!

First, I’ll share something I did NOT enjoy in March:


Yeah sure, it looks kind of nice and pristine on this glorious sunny day we’ve been having here, but I am ready to see patches of grass on my lawn…not a good 4 feet of snow that needs to melt :( Send melty thoughts, please!!

Now, onto the things that didn’t make my heart weep this month!


Admittedly, I am way off my book game lately because I’ve been studying for a mandatory real estate exam that I have coming up this month. That said, I’m not one to let forced work spoil my literary wanderlust, so I always make sure for my extracurricular reading. This month, I’m all about entrepreneurship, self-improvement, and fabulous women. Here’s are my favourites of the moment:

May Cause Miracles – Gabrielle Bernstein

This book is for you if you:

  • are a wannabe-meditator but have a little bit of ADD (or a lotta bit)
  • want to make some changes in your life but feel held back by fear
  • feel stuck in general

I am a super task-based person. I thrive on administrative tasks that you knock off a list in rapidfire succession and then feel super productive. Long, drawn-out books on self-exploration and meditation are not for me right now. This book gives you little tasks to complete each day (one in the morning, one in the evening) that are quick yet deeply transformational.

She Takes On The World – Natalie MacNeil

Natalie is a spitfire, and a Canadian to boot (I said TO boot, not Aboot, thankyouverymuch), so there are two things off the bat to love about her. This book is for anyone who feels a bit lost, is struggling to find their passion, and wants more out of life. That’s a really reduced nutshell summary, but I am really loving Natalie’s writing style and feel like I just want her to come to Ottawa and tell me what to do with my life (Natalie? Are you reading?)


I’ve been trying some new workouts lately, in light of our burgeoning home gym.


I’m loving my indoor cycling classes, which I take twice a week at the Goodlife fitness near my work. These aren’t RPM classes – they’re road drills classes, which means that they’re focused on developing actual translatable cycling skills that can be applied on real bikes, outside. This isn’t why I love the class, though – I love it because my instructor is hilarious and has fantastic taste in music. I honestly look forward to 7am on Tuesdays all week, every week – well as much as one can look forward to a Tuesday, period.

I’m also loving the free cycling workouts available though the Global Cycling Network on Youtube. My favourites are the ones led by Paul Ryman, like this one. If you should land on one where a bunch of girls in sports bras ride spin bikes with terrible form and look like they’re being held at gunpoint, kindly skip ahead and do not let it sully your opinion of the other workouts ;)

Other Cardio

I’m also rediscovering a “love” (because I do NOT love it until I’m finished, and then I feel amazing) for this bad boy:

And as bonus, Matt really enjoys these too…even though he makes me look away when he does 80% of the moves because thinks he looks ridiculous (sidenote: he does but it’s awesome).

And I’ve been using this weapon:

Yep… a good old-fashioned jump rope. Blast some tunes and just jump. Voila!


Insanity does work on strength by focusing on bodyweight exercises, but I do love to lift weights at least 3 days a week, as well. I have a whole routine that I do when I’m able to get to the gym, but on days when I feel too lazy to leave the house, I’m LOVING this program:

I dare you to youtube clips from the BodyBeast workouts. Actually, no…I dare you to watch them and not laugh. Sagi, the trainer, is super hilarious and sometimes unintentionally so, but it’s kind of endearing after a while.


I’m not going to give wordy descriptions of why I love these foods…just know that I eat them often and often have to slap my own hand away from eating more than I want to.

(Oh, if you pick up the cantina extra thin chips…do yourself a favour and mix Frank’s Buffalo Wing Sauce and Bolthouse Farms Chunky Blue Cheese Yogurt dressing together and dunk. Sooo gooood).


Dark Horse –  Katy Perry & Juicy J

Yeah, I know it’s overplayed. But I can’t stop listening!!

Wide Open – B.O.B.

We Alright – Young Money

Go Get It – T.I.

Because if you ever don’t feel swaggy enough, you need to listen to this song.

Born To Die (Gucci Vump Remix) – Lana Del Rey

And then if you’re feeling too swaggy after listening to that last song by T.I., it’s a clear indicator that you don’t have enough Lana Del Rey in your life. I can fix that!

You Know You Like It (Tchami Remix) – AlunaGeorge

As always, I’d love to hear your favourites for not just March, but the last 3 months! And if you have any questions about the things I mentioned here, shoot me an email –

Until next time!




It’s been quite a while since I posted anything of substance (assuming what I usually post is substance, that is). My blogging sabbatical has been for a myriad of reasons, two of which I’ll touch on here since they’re relevant to fitness and health/wellness. Away we go!

1. Life got crazy

In September, Matt and I closed on our house, which we bought in mint condition from the original owner…who built it in 1957.  From September 25 until December 1, we spent every waking non-working moment at the house doing demolition, construction, overseeing contractors, and -finally- doing clean-up, moving, and spending way too much money on things I didn’t even know existed. Our to-do list is never-ending, but one thing we’ve made major headway with is our home gym!



It’s pretty modest right now, but we’ve got a great open space in the finished half our basement that we plan to use for our Olympic bar/plates, squat rack, and a treadmill. We still have gym memberships, so we aren’t totally relying on the home gym, but I’ve discovered some really amazing home workout programs that are doing the trick.

2. I shook things up

I mean I really shook things up.

In October 2013, I ran the Chicago Marathon. I followed a pretty intense training program last summer that was designed to increase my speed/improve my time without increasing my training dramatically. I busted my ass running sprints at the local track on Mondays, doing tempo runs on Thursdays, and doing long runs on Saturdays. I started working with a nutrition coach to get my eating in order, and found out that I was not eating enough calories or enough high quality food to support my training. I set out to work through some of my food issues, and imagined coming out the other side a super-lean athlete.

Much to my dismay, I finished my marathon in October feeling chubby and still very much at odds with my body and with food. I saw the photos taken of me that weekend, and I decided that something needed to change – there was no way that I was overeating when I was training at such a high intensity, so why did I feel so crappy and not look like the athlete I felt that I was?


After the marathon, I started doing some research in the hopes that I’d find some guidance on how to change my body. I stumbled upon a ton of resources, which can be summarized as:

  • work smarter, not harder
  • less cardio
  • more weights
  • eat more

As a caveat, not all of these would apply to everyone. If you’re currently sedentary, for example, doing less cardio definitely isn’t to your benefit ;) But if you’re overtrained, underfed, and living in the body of a formerly obese person (so basically, if you’re me) this seems to be the gold standard for body recomposition.

Enter: Kiki and Lucia, the lovely ladies behind EatMore2WeighLess. To save you from a 5000 word blog post, I won’t wax on for too long about this, but if you suspect that your metabolism is damaged, sluggish, or adapted to a low calorie diet OR if you’ve been training at a high intensity for months and months and are finding that you have to do more and more cardio and eat less calories to see the scale move, you need to make this site your best friend. Like, now!

So the punchline. From November until the beginning of March, I decreased my cardio to 2 sessions a week (an interval-style spin class, for example) and my weight training to 4 days/week with light cardio (treadmill walking for example) on those days if I felt so inclined. I used a calculator to determine my total daily energy expenditure increased my calories to match the number that popped out. It’s important that I mention here that I also started following If It Fits Your Macros (IIFYM) to get a sense of how much protein and fat and how many carbs I should be eating to reach my goals. In a nutshell, this meant that I got to eat WAY more  carbs than I was used to, but also more protein (tough unless you’re  veteran bodybuilder). Through IIFYM, I got to eat all the tasty foods I’d considered off limits for years (and would consequently binge on) as long as I was getting my vitamins and minerals and hitting my ‘prescribed’ macronutrient ratio. This is not for everyone, but it’s been a dream for me

It’s not all sunshine and roses from here, though; I gained about 8-10 lbs in the 4 months that I ate at this increased level, and that felt pretty awful even though it’s completely normal and to be expected whenever you increase your calories significantly in a short period of time.

However, I also saw incredible improvements in the gym, and watched as many of my food issues dissipated. It was truly an incredible journey. If you’ve ever restricted/dieted for an extended period of time and find that you can’t trust yourself around food, are obsessed with food, or are binge eating, please consider feeding your body appropriately.

Feel free to email ( me and I’m happy to chat with you about this, because I really believe it’s a game changer :)

So now, I’m trying to lose some of the weight I gained during my ‘reset’ in time for summer (which ‘they’ claim is coming, but I’m skeptical). I feel like there’s so much to say about these past few months, so I can post more on how I’m approaching weight loss, or on anything else you might be interested in, if you let me know what you’d like to see :)

I’m glad to be back, and hope I can get into a consistent schedule again! Thanks for sticking around.

Welcome to Part 2 of my recap of 2013’s best songs for working out. This post will be focused on my favourite songs from this past year for running.

I covered my picks for strength training here, so head over and check those out if you haven’t yet :) There’s way more awesome music on that list than this one, because for some reason I can run to my strength training songs but can’t strength train as “well” to my running songs.

Feds Watching – 2 Chainz

Black Skinhead – Kanye West

Wit Me – T.I.

F*ckwitmeyouknowigotit – Jay Z. ft Rick Ross

All Night – Icona Pop

Counting Stars – OneRepublic

Summertime Sadness Remix – Lana Del Rey vs. Cedric Gervais

I Want Crazy- Hunter Hayes

The Other Side – Jason Derulo

Holy Grain – Jay Z. ft. Justin Timberlake

Wake Me Up – Avicii

Hey Brother – Avicii

Fire – Big Sean

Timber – PItbull ft. Kesha

How I Feel – Flo Rida

This post doesn’t need much introduction, since anyone who’s been reading my blog since I started it knows that workout music is just about my favourite thing to post about, and when I take a little LOA from the blog, I usually return with a playlist to get back into the swing of things.

I didn’t find myself too taken with a lot of the music that was released in 2013, in the sense that I didn’t run out (well I guess no one really runs anywhere to buy music anymore) and buy full albums. I did, however, become obsessed with a few songs, and I’m still listening to many of my discoveries from earlier this year daily…which is a good sign.

I decide to split these songs into different posts based on how I “use” them most often – weight lifting, running/cycling, or other cardio. Oh, and a warning: I listened to an awful lot of hip hop/rap this year. Not sure why.

And on that note, away we go.

Best Songs from 2013 for Strength Training

Power Trip – J. Cole

Swimming Pools – Kendrick Lamar

Wicked Games – The Weeknd

Type of Way – Rich Homie Quan

Memories Back Then – T.I. ft. B.O.B. & Kendrick Lamar

Royals – Lorde

Clappers – Wale Ft. Nicki Minaj & Juicy J. (Side note: I’m particularly ashamed of this one)

Hold On We’re Going Home – Drake

Before I Ever Met You – Banks

Blood On The Leaves – Kanye West

Bounce It – Juicy J.

Not Giving In – Rudimental (Not a 2013 song, but I just discovered it this year and I’m obsessed!)

Paranoid – Ty Dolla $ign ft. B.O.B.

All I Want – B.O.B.

Netflix – 2 Chainz ft. Fergie

She Knows – J. Cole

Switch Up – Big Sean ft. Common

Rhyme or Reason – Eminem

Black Unicorn – 2 Chainz

My Body – Lady Gaga ft. R. Kelly

It crept on fairly slowly. It started out as a handful here and a handful there – at the office or at Matt’s house. With yogurt, with milk, or just shoveled in my mouth. Then it became an obsession, and a quest to find one that was the most crunchy, sweet-but-not-too-sweet, and complimentary to plain Greek yogurt.

And now, months later, I confess: I’m addicted to granola. A few months ago my colleague shared with me the delight that is Nature’s Path Peanut Butter Granola.

I became obsessed, in a twisted way. I recognized that I ‘couldn’t be trusted to keep a box of granola that tasty in my apartment, but I wanted to incorporate it into my life because what, friends, is a granola-less life? I bought a couple boxes, ate more than I’d prefer (well, than my pants would prefer) and then decided that the solution to taming my granola beast was to buy less tasty granola – you know, the stuff that’s pretty much just rollled oats with some honey or maple and some dried fruit. That solution was a flop because, while I didn’t actually feel tempted at all by the new granola, I didn’t really want to eat it, either.

I decided to take matters into my own hands and make a granola at home that I could make in a smaller batch and control the ingredients (namely sugar). Some googling left me salivating over Sarah Wilson’s Sugar-Free Coco-Nutty Granola, from the  “I Quit Sugar Cookbook“. The short and simple ingredient list and total ease of preparation is what appealed to me most about this recipe. I picked up the ingredients on the weekend, and away I went.

Coco-Nutty Granola

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(adapted from Sarah Wilson’s “I Quit Sugar Cookbook)

Makes 10 servings of 41g each

  • 4-5 tablespoons coconut oil (or butter), melted (I used 5 but next time I’ll use 4)
  • 3 cups coconut flakes (I got unsweetened & toasted from the bulk section at Herb & Spice here in Ottawa)
  • 2 tablespoons chia seeds
  • 2 cups almonds, cashews, pecans, walnuts, and brazil nuts (I soaked all of these overnight and then laid them on a baking sheet for about 8 hours to dry)
  • stevia to taste (I used about 6 drops of liquid stevia drops)
  • 1/8tsp salt

Preheat oven to 250 degrees. Mix all ingredients in a bowl, spread evenly on baking paper on a tray and bake until golden, turning halfway. This took about 30-35 minutes in my oven.

When golden remove and cool immediately.



Friends! I apologize for falling off the face of the earth for a couple of months. Without going into too much detail that no one cares about, I bought a house that is being renovated almost top-to-bottom so to say I’ve been busy is an understatement.

I also just got back from running my second marathon, in Chicago. I’m sad to say I didn’t make my goal time (4:45) despite busting my butt doing track repeats and tempo runs and blah blah blah. I’m disappointed, but this race felt 10x better than the last. And in my defence, my Garmin said I finished in 4:55, but I forgot that I’d paused that bad boy for 10 minutes while I waited in a port-a-potty line.

On the plus side, I discovered some really amazing ways to pass the time during the last couple months of marathon training. I’ve always been a huge music-lover, especially when I work out. I didn’t train as much with my running buddy this year, though, which meant waaaay more alone time with just my ipod. I have a select few songs I can listen to ad nauseam, but beyond those I have a really short attention span and get sick of songs really quickly. Sometime back in August, I discovered some really great fitness/health podcasts and I’ve been loving listening to them on my runs. I actually alternated about 1/2 hour of music with a podcast for the entire 5 hours of my marathon on Sunday.

1. Evil Sugar Radio

This is really great health podcast based on dispelling the myths and dogmas that plague the weight-loss/fitness/health/wellness world today. If you’re trying to lose weight, have lost weight, or are just wanting to get fit, you’ve probably contemplated going low carb/gluten-free/vegan/paleo at some point in your journey, and it’s worth giving these guys a listen before making any choices regarding your health/fitness. I struggle with implementing some of their philosophies in my own life, but that just makes me want to keep listening and learn more.

2. Impruvism Radio

If you’re a research junkie like me, you’ll love this podcast. The founder, Armi Legge, runs a website called Impruvism, which is designed to help “obsessive and highly motivated people simplify their health, fitness, and productivity.” I love to run and I love to learn – particularly about health and fitness – so to be able to kill two birds with one stone is fantastic!

3. Full Disclosure Fitness Podcast

When I first listened to this podcast, I was a bit put off; something jut didn’t click like with some other podcasts, but I persevered. I’m not a huge fan of the episodes of this show where the host talks for the full hour(ish), but I do really enjoy his interviews with fitness professionals and I’ve discovered some really interesting people this way.

4. Good Life Project

If you feel a bit uninspired by the daily grind and need some inspiration to make a change (or just change your perspective), you will love this show. A few years ago, I read a book called Career Renegade, by Jonathan Fields. I really enjoyed his story and writing style, so I was pumped to find out he’d started a new project interviewing people who have made amazing careers doing what they love. I started out watching the videos (and I still do when I get the change) of these interviews, but have recently made the switch to podcasts so I can listen while I walk to work, or while I’m working on something a bit more mindless during the day. Who doesn’t need some inspiration now and then?

Enjoy! I’d love to hear about any wonderful podcasts I’ve missed :)

Weight loss is such an individual process – what works for one person won’t work for another, and sometimes you try something once without luck and then on the second go around, something just clicks. Having lost 80lbs, gained it all back (plus 20 pounds), and then lost it all again, I’ve run the gamut as far as weight loss tips and tricks goes. Finally, I’ve come out the other side and a little bit wiser, if I do say so myself. They say hindsight is 20/20 and I’d have to agree; I’d like to save you some time during your weight loss journey and offer some words of wisdom about the process that just might make the whole thing a little more pleasant. I’m going to share some mistakes I made that I’m hoping I can spare you from making, too!

Mistake #1: Using Self-Loathing As Motivation

Both times that I really committed to losing weight, it was because I simply couldn’t stand to look at myself in the mirror. I hated my body more than anything, and I was furious at myself for being fat. When I decided once (ok twice) and for all to lose weight, it was just because I literally couldn’t stand another day in my body.

All this might sound great, since it did result in me losing the weight. Four years removed from this process, though, I realize that I could have saved myself a lot of agony, tears, and frustration if I just approached weight loss from a place of self-love rather than self-hate. Of course, it’s hard to fake loving yourself when you really don’t feel the feelings, but it is somewhat easier to reframe weight loss as an act of self-care rather than an effort to distance yourself from a person you hate.

The reason I wish I had realized this sooner is that weight-loss is one of the greatest – and maybe only – experiments you’ll ever get to conduct on yourself. You get to try out different types of foods, different exercises, and making different choices, and you can adjust based on the results that you see. When I was 245 lbs and trying to lose weight, any day that the scale wasn’t down just a smidge was a total failure and a reflection on my self-worth….not the feedback that it really is. When you respect yourself and your decision to lose weight, you are able to semi-objectively gauge your results and use what you see to inform the decisions you make next.

Mistake #2: Cutting Too Many Calories Off The Bat

I never took the time to track my baseline calories when I started my weight-loss journey, so I really have no idea how much I was eating to get me to 245lbs. When I decided to drop the weight, I immediately cut my calories down to 1400 and then to 1200 and eventually, as low as 1000. I saw great results…until the numbers on the scale stopped dropping.

The body is such an incredible, adaptive, intelligent machine. If you cut yourself, it begins to heal almost immediately. If you do an exercise a few times, your body remembers and makes it a little easier for you each time. Weight loss is similar – your body learns to do what it needs to do on a certain number of calories a day, whether that number is 5000 (in which case it may be doing what it needs and then storing the rest, hence weight gain) or 800 (where you might be able to get by with basic functions but things like sleep, digestion, and complex thoughts might be compromised). When you decrease your calories dramatically from the start, your body will learn to operate efficiently using only that many calories. This means that once your body learns to run well on 1400 calories a day, for example, you will need to reduce again in order to get the weight loss going again. Rinse and repeat until you’re eating 700 calories a day and wondering why you can’t lose weight.

My advice? When you decide to lose weight, track your calories without modification for a few week and weekend days to see what your baseline is. Once you’ve established how much you’ve been eating to weigh what you do, begin by subtracting 250ish calories a day and monitor how your body reacts. Continue dropping in small decrements as needed – if I were doing it all again, I wouldn’t drop in intervals greater than 75 calories per day. Just saying ;)

Mistake #3: Only Doing Cardio

It’s not news that the key to incorporating exercise into your weight-loss program is to do both cardio and strength training. Still, when you’re 100lbs overweight and desperate to lose the weight as soon as possible, you tell yourself “I’ll just do some cardio to shake the first 20 or so pounds and then I’ll start lifting weights.” Then you see your weight dropping and you start to equate cardio with burning calories, which of course mean weight loss, right?

The problem here is both physiological and aesthetic. When you do only cardio, you start to compromise your lean muscle, which is what part of what keeps you running after your grandkids at 80 years old rather that wheeling yourself from the bingo table to your knitting club. You also end up with that ‘skinny fat’ you hear people talking about (unless genetically you are designed to hold muscle, which may be the case…lucky duck!), rather than looking lean and fit. To top it off, the more lean muscle you have, the higher your metabolic rate…which means you burn more calories doing your day to day things than if you were the same weight but mostly fat.

So there you have it. The 3 weight loss mistakes I would NOT make again if I could do it all over again.

I’m a little (ok a lot) late sharing my favourites for June, and I’ve contemplated just not posting them. But then you would be missing out on the splendor of the products I want to share with you! So without small talk (we’re in a time crunch here, people), here are the things I’m loving lately…not just in June ;)

1. My Marathon Training Plan

Source: Furman Institute.

I do plan to do a full update on this at some point if anyone is interested, but the Coles Notes version is that I love this plan. It involves running 3 days/week, with cross-training replacing the ‘junk’ miles (running for the sake of accumulating mileage) that is a part of most plans.  I chose this plan for my second marathon because I’m hoping to improve my time and that’s exactly what this program is designed to do. As such, all the runs on this plan are deliberate; by that, I mean that they each serve a very specific purpose. As someone who finds it hard on my body to run two days in a row, this plan has been a godsend. And along with that…

2. My Garmin 405

I’ve had my Garmin for about a year and a half, and until I started following the FIRST plan I didn’t use it to even a fraction of its full capacity. By the miracle of technology, I’ve been able to upload all of my workouts down to the second (track repeats and all). I just push the button and go! Love it. These are pricey but if you’re trying to meet a specific running goal, it’s a fantastic tool to have in your belt.

3. Natural Calm Magnesium Supplement

[Source: Natural Calm]

This stuff is amazing! I heard about it through word of mouth, gawked at the price tag (it will run you around $30 for the smallest size), but decided to give it a shot. Magnesium deficiency has been linked to insomnia, migraines, joint pain, anxiety, digestive issues, and the list goes on. Since I started taking 3/4 tbsp of Natural Calm in the morning and again half an hour before bed, I’ve noticed that I’ve been sleeping better, much more relaxed, and my headaches have been AWOL. It also does wonders for digestion (but I won’t get into that ;) ). I make mine into a slush by blending the powder with a little water, a ton (like a whole tray) of ice cubes and a little stevia.

4. Songza

I’m sure this is old news to you all, but in case you haven’t discovered Songza yet, get on that bandwagon! Essentially, it offers you playlists to choose from based on day of the week, time of day, and mood. I’ve discovered SO much good music through Songza and listening to it while I work and work out has made the time fly by.
A few of my favourite playlists are:

  • Blogged 50
  • Hip Hop/R&B Pool Party
  • Indie Apartment Party
  • Frat-Rap House Party

5. Hourglass Mineral Veil Primer

[Source: Hourglass Mineral Veil Primer]

I have combination skin, meaning that most of my face is normal but my nose and forehead tends to get very oily. I’ve tried a million different primers but always found that during the summer, my makeup would slide off my face. Last year, on a whim, I followed the advice of one of the Sephora makeup artists and picked up this Hourglass primer. No regrets here! This primer is amazing and will keep your makeup on all day, whether your skin is oily or combination like mine.

6. How to Have Your Cake and Your Skinny Jeans Too – Josie Spinardi


I happened upon this book after reading a half-dozen other books along the “eat like a naturally thin person” vein. Although all the books have been brilliant in their own way, this one is far and away my favourite so far. Josie touches on all the areas that the other books discuss, but provides a practical, hands-on approach to changing your relationship with food, while the others are based more in theory. Plus, Josie is adorable and so down to earth and approachable.


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